Support Unit or Negligence Unit?

"Ug...My head...Man I need to get more rest soon..."

Sorry that I never really update my blog that much considering the bundles of assignments that has been piling up day by day. Not to mention I'm having a lack of time of doing them as well. I do hope one way or another I'll be able to complete them nicely before November starts. Since my head is spinning around out of tiredness and fever, I would like to put this up before I head for my rest.

I'm sure you all wonder why I set the title of "Support or Negligence" as my topic this time. Actually what I wanted to pointed out is about what parents are doing towards their children. I have been observing on the problems that some people have been through and it seems like there is a little trouble when it comes to parents taking care of their children nowadays. True, maybe I'm not suitable on talking about this considering I haven't even start my own family but still, I do have my share of ideas on what I wanted to say. Back to the topic that I've wanted to point out, is there a reason why I questioned the capabilities of some parents at the moment? Yeah I do question their capabilities at this time.

Alright, to narrow it down a little more better, I'll take studying as one of the problem that is facing by the children. If the child did not want to study, what should we do? We give them advice and try to persuade them on doing their homework. But, the problem now is, even when the child is trying their hardest to study for the subjects, they are still been label as being a "Lazy" child or even scolded them by throwing all kinds of irrelevant or untrue information. Is there any kinds of problem for a child to study? No right? Pretty much sure the parents suppose to be more supportive on giving them encouragement for them to study better instead of neglecting and throwing tantrum to those children when they wanted to study.

"No really..."
"Do not let your child ended up doing things that would end their life"

Getting the worse of it, after the child was trying their best but failed to archive a result they wanted, for example, the student wanted to get an 'A' but ended up getting a 'B' as a grade, what did the parents do? They didn't encourage them, they insulted them more and even let out a long endless complain for the child to hear. Isn't that interesting, the parents first complain how lazy the child was even when they are studying, and they still continue to complain when the child get a result that can still consider a good one. So, what does the parent really want from their children actually? They can't even make a good decision out of it and all they do is just complain from top to bottom and everything they child does seems wrong. If the parent actually realized, it can actually put a heavy pressure towards the child itself.

"Is it wrong? I studied but they're never satisfied with it"
"It would be worse if I never actually touch the book at all!"
"Either way, both of the route I took seems wrong for them"
"So which one do they want me to do then? I'm confused!"

Its true, that we need to set up a rule for the children to follow. But, complaining or insulting the children that is actually trying to do a good deed out of it isn't the way of parenting. The parents should be supporting more if they child is eager to study, not condemning them till their spirits broke apart. And I'm even sure that in an examination, all parents wanted to see their children score A's in their paper. But if the child didn't pass that expatiation after trying hard, encourage them, not demotivate them off until the state that they think themselves as a useless human being.

Yes like I have said, I may not have much experiance sine I'm still far away of being father of my children, but seeing how some parents treated their children like a bag of rubbish is plain horrible. Anyhow I'm going to stop here for now. That is all I can say about it at the moment. All I could hope for that some of the parents will be able to take note about it one way or another.